Even if you have attended the funeral for a friend or loved one, chances are good you don't fully understand the process of planning funeral services. While it is not necessarily difficult to understand, trying to make all the arrangements when you are grieving can be a bit daunting. The first thing you will need to decide is what type of service you want. Here are some options you may choose from or combine.

Viewing

The viewing is generally reserved for family and very close friends. The body of the deceased is present for everyone to say their final goodbyes. This is a good option if you are planning on cremation as the body will not be present during any other part of the service.

Visitation

Visitation is when people other than family and close friends gather to show support and sympathy for the family of the deceased. It can be done prior to funeral services in the same location. 

Funeral

The body may or may not be present during the funeral. Generally, there will be an officiant, the funeral director, or a religious leader, who gives a eulogy prepared by the family. After that, family and guests are invited to say something about the deceased. However, there is usually a time constraint on funerals, so people will need to be brief if many want to speak.

Graveside Service

The graveside service may be done in addition to a regular funeral or in place of one. Often, it is only family and close friends at the gravesite if there was a full funeral service beforehand. In addition, if the weather is bad, this may need to be skipped.

Memorial Service

A memorial service is done without the presence of the body. It is often done after the body has been buried or cremated. Most people consider this to be a "celebration of life". Family and friends gather to celebrate the life of the deceased. There may be food, stories, and music in a party-like atmosphere. This option may be done according to the wishes of the deceased.

It is possible that the deceased made some or all of the arrangements before passing. However, you will need to schedule the different events. Some services may be held at home, some at a funeral home or church, and others at the graveside. Do not try to do everything alone. A funeral director or minister can help so you can go through the process of mourning without the worry of deciding who needs to be where and when. Contact a local funeral service to learn more.